Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts

Thursday 30 March 2017

9 Simple Tasks that Makes Marriages Work

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9 Simple Tasks that Makes Marriages Work


1. Separate emotionally from the family you grew up in; not to the point of estrangement, but enoyour identity is separate from that of your parents and siblings.


2. Build togetherness based on a shared intimacy and identity, while at the same time set boundaries to protect each partner's autonomy.

3. Establish a rich and pleasurable s*xual relationship and protect it from the intrusions of the workplace and family obligations.

4. For couples with children, embrace the daunting roles of parenthood and absorb the impact of a baby's entrance into the marriage.


5. Learn to continue the work of protecting the privacy of you and your spouse as a couple.

6. Confront and master the inevitable crises of life.

7. Maintain the strength of the marital bond in the face of adversity. The marriage should be a safe haven in which partners are able to express their differences, anger and conflict.

8. Use humor and laughter to keep things in perspective and to avoid boredom  and isolation.

Nurture and comfort each other, satisfying each partner's needs for dependency and offering continuing encouragement and support.

9. Keep alive the early romantic, idealized images of falling in love, while facing the sober realities of the changes brought by time.
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Wednesday 29 March 2017

How my Aunt’s Husband Fingered and F*cked me in my Own Bed


Last night, I jolted awake by a presence in my room.

I however, remained still as I slowly opened my eyes and could barely make out my uncle’s figure (my aunty's husband) in the room. He stood at the foot of my mattress clad only in a towel tied round his waist, staring down at me. I was baffled and thought he was looking for something. I very nearly made him realize I was awake so that I could help him get what he wanted, but something, I can not say what made me remain in the position I was in, feigning sleep. I usually sleep n*ked with only a wrapper for the cold. Usually during hot seasons, I wake up to see the wrapper discarded in my struggle against the heat.

This fateful night, I was sleeping face up with the wrapper only covering my pus*y, but with my chest
n*ked and my young but full b*obs proudly standing firm on my chest. My uncle was looking down on me and I saw that he had a huge bulge on the towel front. Then he licked his lips and then bent down softly and lay beside me. His hands sneaked slowly forward as he started caressing my bo*bs and n*pples. My body quivered, but I still pretended to be asleep. Then slowly, ever slowly, I felt his hands move down towards my groin area as he carefully removed the wrapper that was covering my pu*sy mound.

He stared down at the triangle between my legs with a lust filled expression and I saw his whole body shake as he touched my pus*y mound. Then his finger began to probe its way inside of me, and I felt myself grow wet with excitement, his finger was gently sliding up and down the folds of my pus*y and I pretended I was oblivious to it all. It was difficult to pretend, as my body had tensed up when
his finger entered my tight wet pu*sy, but I did it, I did not want him to know that I was awake, I didn’t want him to stop. His finger continued sliding in and out of me at first slowly but then increasing pace until it became fast, I didn’t know when a sound escaped my lips, ‘’hmmm" He tensed and his fingers stopped their movement, but I also stilled my breathing and controlled my reaction to his fingering.

moments of him watching my face intently and convincing himself that I was still asleep, he continued his fing*ring movement. I was gyrating my hips softly to meet and encourage his fingers, but it all seemed as if I was doing it unconsciously.

My legs had opened up wider for his exploring fingers, but I did it all subtly so as not to rouse his suspicion. He must have thought my reaction was subconscious not knowing that I was wide awake and enjoying all he was doing. Then when I was almost climaxing, he stopped and withdrew his finger from my s*pping wet pu*sy. I sighed in frustration and moved my body about the mattress. He just sat there looking at me as I made as if I was having a dream.

Some few minutes later, after he must have convinced himself that I was fast asleep again, I felt him above me, now, his large 50+year-old frame towering above my teenage 19-year-old body. I
pretended to be snoring, though. I was actually kind of whimpering, too, I could not help it. So when my uncle took his n*ked di*k and placed it against the folds of my v*gina, he thought I was asleep. And my pu*sy was wet from the fingering. And my legs were already spread. 

He stared at my face and his hands came down onto my b*obs, finally, into my hungry pu*sy.

It was slow going: my pus*y was impossibly tight, and warm, and shoving his co*k into it turned out to be quite a chore. After he got a few inches in, I began to gasp. He stared at my face and saw my
lips parting but still with eyes closed His beefy,

wrinkled hands kneaded my over ripe bo*bs again. Iwas pretending to be asleep while my aunt’s husband fu*ked me in my own bed. I found it very er*tic and would have loved to howl in pleasure but
figured that I had to keep with the pretence if I did not
want the pleasure to abruptly end.

Finally, all nine inches of his thick c*ck were inside my body. I looked down through my lashes and saw that it was quite a sight. His thick curly p*bic hairs pressed against my fresh young body, his co*k buried inside of me to the hilt. He took a moment to
rest; I guess a moment to enjoy the incredible feeling of this fresh, young pus*y. My breathing had picked up, but anyone would think that I was definitely still unconscious. She had to be. He began to pull out of
me and in panic thought his conscience had kicked in. then he began to move slowly, keeping his eyes on my face while he thrust in and out of me. My breathing had picked up even more, and I was making that oval expression again.

Thrust after thrust, he violated me. I had begun to
unconsciously p*nt with each inward stroke he made. My pus*y felt like the end of a thousand nerve endings. Each time he thrust into me, I would jerk back to meet his thrust. I wanted to wrap my
legs round his waist and wail as my org*sm shook me, but I knew that would be giving up the pretense and maybe ending the fu*k and gawd! I did not want the f*ck to end just yet, I felt ready to explode. I was completely limp underneath him, and he fu*ked me like a rag doll, each thrust jiggling my b*obs and moving my smaller light body back and forth on my mattress.

Minutes passed, and I was in ecstasy as my body exploded in waves after waves of pleasure and my toes curled up unconsciously, he did not stop, I was at his mercy, but I loved it so. After ten minutes of continuous pummeling, of thrusting his hard p*nis in and out of my tight little c*nt, he was finally ready to explode as I felt his c*ck grow harder inside me, I felt him push deeper inside me and pump load after load of his hot spe*m inside my clutching pus*y, another explosive org*sm wracked my body as I could not help it as moans came unannounced from my lungs.

“Angela?” he p*nted, looking at me intently.

But there was no response. I held myself still and unresponsive, my eyes were closed and my mouth was motionless. 

Convinced I was still asleep, he thrust his pe*is all the way inside of me once more and let it explode again. He grunted and I groaned as he pumped my little tummy full of his spe*m.

After he finished c*mming and pulled out, he studied my expression. Then he slowly got off the bed, took one of my cloths from off the floor and used it to clean my wide open pus*y of his dripping sp*rm.

Satisfied all was ok, he opened the door of my room
slowly, stepped out and closed the door behind him.

I waited a few moments to confirm he had entered his room and was sure when I heard the door of his room open and close. I then felt between my legs at the rapidly closing hole that was my pus*y. His spe*m was still trickling out of me, so I did a proper job of cleaning.

This morning, everything was normal between us and uncle showed no sign that he had fu*ked me last night and I did not show any sign that I was awake. What could I even do if I did?
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20 Effective Ways to Keep Your Husband Forever

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If you can diligently follow this steps, your husband will be yours forever.

1) Never raise your voice for any reason. Its a sign of disrespect. (Prov 15v1).

2) Dont expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are eachother's keeper. (Eph 5v12)

3) Never use attitudes to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret. Defensive women do not make a happy home.

4) Never compare to your husband to other men, you have no idea what their life is all about. If you attack
his ego, his love for you will diminish.

5) Never ill treat your husband's friends, just because, you dont like them. The person who is supposed to get rid of them, is your husband.

6) Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7) Never assign any to give attention to your husband. People may do everything else, but your husband is your responsibility.

8) Never blame your husband if he comes home empty handed, rather, encourage him. (Deut 3v28)

9) Never pretend to be sick, for the purpose of denying your husband s*x. You must give it to him, how he wants it. S*x is important to men. If you keep denying him, its a matter of time, before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand s*x starvation for too long. Even the annointed ones.

10) Never compare your husband to your one time s*x mate or your ex lover. Your home may not recover from it, if you do.

11) Never shout at or challenge your husband in public or in front of your children.

12) Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

13) Dont forget that husbands want attention and good listeners. Never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every marriage.

14) Never base your love on material things. Will you still submit to him, if you earn more than him?

15) Your parents or family members do not have the final say in your marriage. Do not bring in a third party, no matter what.

16) Do not be too judgemental on your husband. No one wants a nagging wife. (Eph 4v29)

17) Don't associate with women who have the wrong mental attitude about marriage.

18) Never be too demanding and extravagant. Enjoy every moment and resources as it comes. (Luke 11v3)

19) You are never too old to influence your family. Never reduce your care for your family, for any reason.

20) A prayerful wife, is a better equipped wife. Pray for your husband and family. (1 Thess 5v17)
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Tuesday 28 March 2017

10 Guaranteed Ways to Give a Guy an Erection in the Blink of an Eye

Want to give a guy an e*ection in no time? Whether by touch or with your words, here are guaranteed ways to give a guy an e*ection in the
blink of an eye!


Giving a guy a hard on is a serious turn on, and, perhaps more importantly, is necessary in order to have great s*x. There is no greater turn on than watching or feeling your guy get hard and knowing it is all down to you. 

Sometimes it is fun to take the lead, and put the moves on your man to make him
hot, h*rny, and ready for action. Try the following tips to turn him on, give him a boner and make him think you are the best girlfriend ever!

=> When you start getting down to it, gently start whispering in his ear while giving it a little nibble and the occasional lick.

=> You can go for full on dirty or just whisper how much you love him or how he feels so good touching you, how you love touching him and so on, the more you do this, the harder he will get!


=> Dress up in s*xy lingerie to give your man a great surprise and get him hard in no time. You could go for something classy or cheeky, revealing or romantic, or better yet, why not dress up in a s*xy costume? E*ection guaranteed!

=> Guys love it when a girl takes charge so tell him exactly what you want him to do to you and when. Hearing out loud all the things you love and why, and hearing your appreciative moans and groans when he does them will give him a boner for sure!

=> Okay, so it might be obvious, but touching his p*nis is a surefire way to get him hard. Start off by gently wrapping your hand around the base of his p*nis and lightly move your hand up and down – ask him if he likes it harder, faster, etc.

You will soon feel it growing and stiffening in your hands – a serious turn on!


=> Go down on him and he is sure to be grateful and get a hard on instantly. Start off by gently licking up and down the underside of his p*nis, gently tickle his balls while you do it and then take him in your mouth, wrapping your lips around your teeth as you do so. Suck and lick his p*nis and you will be feeling him getting hard in no time.

=> Guys love teasing as much as girls do, start by softly kissing and stroking him all over, get close to his p*nis and occasionally go closer before moving away, then kiss him passionately on the lips and then pull away again. Keep repeating this until he has a huge hard-on and is begging you for more.

If you want to take the teasing even further, do not let him touch you at all while you do the above. If he moves his hands towards you, hold them back. Or you could even tie him up for the ultimate in awesome, agonizing pleasure.

=> Give him confidence in the bedroom by telling him what a good job he is doing. When he is touching you, tell him how great it feels and why.

Hearing how much you love it, is going to make him stand to attention in more ways than one!

=> Talking dirty to one another can be a surefire way to get things steamy in no time at all.

If you are not that comfortable at first, do not worry, it can take practice to get into it. Start off slowly and you will soon get the hang of it, and he is sure to have a huge erection in no time.

=> Back to the teasing! If you want to keep him waiting
and get him seriously hard before you go to the next level, why not evoke a ‘kissing only’ rule? Sometimes, if you have been in a relationship for a while, it is easy to neglect the simple pleasures, so get down to a serious make-out session and you will be sure to feel him getting hard in no time at all!
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How to Permanently Stop Hate

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People that hold onto hate for so long do so because they want to avoid dealing with their pain. 


They falsely believe if they forgive they are letting their
enemy believe they are a doormat. What they do not
understand is hatred can not be isolated or turned off.

It manifests in their health, choices and belief systems.

Their values and religious beliefs make adjustments to justify their negative emotions.

Also Read: The Final Solution to R*pe

Their spirit slowly becomes corrupted and they make choices that do not make logical sense to others.

Hatred left unaddressed will crash a person’s spirit.

The only thing he or she can do is to reboot, by fixing him or herself, not others. This might require installing a firewall of boundaries or parental controls on their emotions. Regardless of the approach, we are all connected on this "network of life" and each of us is responsible for cleaning up our spiritual files.

The worst grudge is being told that you are forgiven, yet your sins are still glowing in their hearts like a burning coal.
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The Final Solution to Rape: A Must Read

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Rape is one of the most terrible crimes on earth
and it happens every few minutes.


The problem with groups who deal with rape is that they try to educate women about how to defend themselves.

Also Read: How I Got Laid by My Chior Master

What really needs to be done is teaching men not to rape. Go to the source and start there.
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Monday 27 March 2017

How I Got Laid by My Chior Master


It happened on a Sunday evening, I just came from a
serious meeting and I was not expecting anyone. I sat down and was preparing to watch project fame, when the usual thing that happens in Nigeria happened. PHCN took the light, kai.

"Eheya" my evening has being ruined, but just when I
taught I should go to bed, someone knocked on my
door. I opened the door only to see my choir master
at my door. "Can I help u?" I asked him "Don't you
know today is house fellowship and you are hosting us?" I saw it was raining, so I told him to come in and I locked the door.
Emeka is the kind of guy who I can say is recklessly handsome.

If you see his smile and set of teeth, you will confess Jesus is Lord, fu*k! But I had to come back to reality, because I was going to host a lot of
people and I do not want trouble, but others had not
come. It seems no one was coming, maybe because of the heavy rain.

So we sat down. I sat very far from him to avoid eeehm... and I was reading the Bible. Pretending to be virgin Mary, as I closed my eyes praying.

All of a sudden PHCN brought light. We both shouted "up Nepa" Emeka asked me to put on the dvd and get some water for him, I did as I was told. As the dvd
was loading, I went to get water from the kitchen,
only to hear him shout "JESUS" I rushed back to the
sitting room, only to see the dvd playing blue film. I was shocked, fu*k! I rushed to turn off the dvd. And tried to explain, but I was stammering.

Emeka shouted at once "will you shut up, you bad girl, I came here to study the Bible, now you have succeeded in making me think about s*x". As soon as he said that, he rushed me ozugbo, and started kissing me so deep, I heard him moan. Hmmmm.

He never knew I was good in lip service. I kissed him back, licked his lips and tongue, kissing his neck, as he almost...

To be continued!
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