Wednesday, 31 May 2017

My Relationship has been Full of Tears: Please Advice Me

Please i need this forum to help me out on this issue.

I am 25, my boyfriend is 31, our relationship is just 4months old, but so far I noticed I have been the only one pushing hard and trying to make things work, he is been nonchalant about the whole thing, I do the calling, visiting and all that, most times he does not even pick my calls, and he would not return the call either, if I complain he would say I nag too much, plus so many other attitudes.

In fact the relationship has been full of tears for me.

Today I went to his house and talked to him about how I feel, I told him that the burden of the relationship is too much for me to bare, we are 2 adults in the relationship so we should both put our efforts or he should let me go now before it is too late. He begged me not to be angry and said he knows he is not been fair to me, that his issue is that, I am not his spec of girl when it comes to physical appearance, he just wanted to have his fun with me and walk away, but the issue now is that he realized during the course of the relationship that I am everything he wants in a woman in terms of attitude, that is why he is just confused, that I should give him time to really think it through, then I told him I was tired of suffering in the name of relationship, so while he is thinking, the relationship should be on hold, he refused but I stood my ground and walked away.

Please am I being irrational or am I overacting? Please candid advice please because I am hurting already.
Read More »

Sunday, 28 May 2017

My Engagement Ring is Missing: Please What do I do?

please I am worried about something that happened, my engagement ring is missing, I have never removed it before, I do that when I want to bath or wash clothes.

I visited my mans house, that is not the first time, but when I woke up after spending two nights, the ring is no more on my finger at all. Raised up the sheet, turned the house upside down, but did not find it. My guy just said to me, if I can not find it, I should relax that it is just a ring he bought 26k. The way he said it, I was like do you mean that ?

When I asked him for another ring, he told me the next one I will wear is his wedding ring. Since 4 months that ring disappeared, his calls reduced. I send him whatsapp, he does not reply.

He changed his house key without telling me. Visited his office, before he could see me in the name that he is busy.

After three abortions. I am so broken, is he no more interested in me or what? I go to his house, wash and clean for him. What do you advice I do? I am 34 years, he is 36 years .
Read More »

Thursday, 11 May 2017

Am in Tears: I Caught My Girlfriend Fu*king Another Guy Yesterday

I love this babe so much. I used to give her one or two rounds. Saving her pucci for the future, in case we later get married. I did not know she likes s*x that much. I did not know she likese to go like 4 rounds.

I caught her in bed p*nts down with my paddy, an Ibo guy. Instead of being ashamed, she said I only go two rounds, that I am not hot.

That my friend can go 4 to 5 rounds. And that my friend does not pity her pu*sy. I don't knw what she means by that.

So I angrily left.

Right now I am in tears.

I have not felt like this before.

Pls advice me.

Should I go and beg her?
Should I dump her or has she dumped Me already?

Should I forgive my paddy that betrayed me?

I am so confused right now.

I feel humiliated. Why do babes like rough guys? I was trying to play the good guy. It backfired.

Please advice me.
Read More »
Designed by Johnpele