Showing posts with label Love story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love story. Show all posts

Wednesday, 31 May 2017

My Relationship has been Full of Tears: Please Advice Me

Please i need this forum to help me out on this issue.

I am 25, my boyfriend is 31, our relationship is just 4months old, but so far I noticed I have been the only one pushing hard and trying to make things work, he is been nonchalant about the whole thing, I do the calling, visiting and all that, most times he does not even pick my calls, and he would not return the call either, if I complain he would say I nag too much, plus so many other attitudes.

In fact the relationship has been full of tears for me.

Today I went to his house and talked to him about how I feel, I told him that the burden of the relationship is too much for me to bare, we are 2 adults in the relationship so we should both put our efforts or he should let me go now before it is too late. He begged me not to be angry and said he knows he is not been fair to me, that his issue is that, I am not his spec of girl when it comes to physical appearance, he just wanted to have his fun with me and walk away, but the issue now is that he realized during the course of the relationship that I am everything he wants in a woman in terms of attitude, that is why he is just confused, that I should give him time to really think it through, then I told him I was tired of suffering in the name of relationship, so while he is thinking, the relationship should be on hold, he refused but I stood my ground and walked away.

Please am I being irrational or am I overacting? Please candid advice please because I am hurting already.
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Sunday, 28 May 2017

My Engagement Ring is Missing: Please What do I do?

please I am worried about something that happened, my engagement ring is missing, I have never removed it before, I do that when I want to bath or wash clothes.

I visited my mans house, that is not the first time, but when I woke up after spending two nights, the ring is no more on my finger at all. Raised up the sheet, turned the house upside down, but did not find it. My guy just said to me, if I can not find it, I should relax that it is just a ring he bought 26k. The way he said it, I was like do you mean that ?

When I asked him for another ring, he told me the next one I will wear is his wedding ring. Since 4 months that ring disappeared, his calls reduced. I send him whatsapp, he does not reply.

He changed his house key without telling me. Visited his office, before he could see me in the name that he is busy.

After three abortions. I am so broken, is he no more interested in me or what? I go to his house, wash and clean for him. What do you advice I do? I am 34 years, he is 36 years .
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Monday, 17 April 2017

He Wants to Marry Me but Am Scared: Advice me Please

I need advice on this. Am 26rs just graduated last year and he is 34years. I met him last year September through his sister and we started talking. After 1month he opened up to me that he was married, I was shocked and wanted to avoid him, he told me he got married 2015 and few months after their wedding the lady got pregnant for him but started talking concoctions without his knowledge so as to get rid of the baby, he took her to the hospital and the doctor confirmed that the baby is dead and they have to flush it.

It got him angry and he went extra mile to find out more about the girl, he found out that the girl is already married since 2010 and she also lied to him about her age, she is much older than him. He showed me the girl first wedding pictures and she was also heavily pregnant in the pictures.

The guy invited the girls parent, the pastor that wedded them and his own parents to his house to dissolve the wedding, the pastor destroyed their wedding certificate saying that the lady already belongs to another man.

He came to my house last christmas with his parents to confirm the story because i doubted him. This is 7months we started talking and he have asked me to marry him.

I do really like enough to marry him but the problem is the messages the ex-wife sends to him, the last message she sent was that God will fight for her and he replied her that her charm will no more work on him.

Do you think I should give time before accepting him?

Pls I need advice your advice and not insult.
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